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Melinda Messenger

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BirthdayFeb 23 1971
BirplaceSwindon, England
CountryUnited Kingdom
Age53 years old
Birth sign: Pisces

Biography:

Melinda Jayne Messenger is an English ex-glamour model Page 3 girl and current television presenter. She formerly presented the magazine programme Live from Studio Five and is currently co-broadcaster of the reality show Cowboy Builders. She is sometimes known by her alter-ego Rebecca Rowley

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About:

Glamour model turned reality show host who hosted Live from Studio Five and co-broadcasted the reality show Cowboy Builders.

Before Fame:

She began as a glamour model in the 1990's where she received the tabloids' attention.

Trivia:

After her modeling career, she started to work on a cult show Eurotrash.

Family Life:

She married Welshman Wayne Roberts in 1998.

Associated With:

She presented a show called Live from Studio Five with Kate Walsh.

Birth Name Melinda Jayne Messenger
Number Of Children 3
Given Name Melinda
Country Of Citizenship United Kingdom
Work Period 1997-01-01T00:00:00Z

Personality traits:

1. Prediction of Melinda Messenger personality

Smart, creative, and deeply intuitive, Melinda Messenger can be close to psychic. Melinda Messenger feel things deeply, and have incredibly strong gut reactions. A Melinda Messenger "knows" things from deep within, and can often judge whether a person or situation is good or bad. That doesn't mean a Melinda Messenger ignores the logical part of their brain, though. Deeply intelligent, Melinda Messenger have a profound respect for the power of the human mind. Is it a surprise that Albert Einstein was a Melinda Messenger?

2. Melinda Messenger' Greatest Gifts

A Melinda Messenger has a great gut and great intuition, which can guide them well, and help them make creative or intellectual leaps other people might not be able to see or consider. Deeply imaginative, Melinda Messenger can happily spend hours daydreaming, and are often just as surprised as the rest of the world when the pieces come together in an amazing way. Melinda Messenger don't necessarily work the same way as other people do, and they may be able to get things done incredibly quickly. But it's not that they're that much faster than other zodiac signs. It's that the time they may have been caught staring into space are times that are deeply valuable to them, and necessary for any creative process. The more a Melinda Messenger understands how they work and respects that process, the better they are.

3. Melinda Messenger' Greatest Challenges

Melinda Messenger signs can sometimes spend too much time in their heads, getting overly wrapped up in a problem and assuming there's no solution. Melinda Messenger are always one of the first signs to lend an ear to others, but when it comes to asking for help—especially emotional help—Melinda Messenger can sometimes wall themselves off, assuming that nobody knows what they are feeling and not even giving anyone a chance to try. Learning how to open up can be a huge lesson for Melinda Messenger. Of course, the fact remains that no one can read a Melinda Messenger mind. Melinda Messenger sometimes feels frustrated that they are seen as "more complicated" than their peers, and that feeling can make them act or seem defensive. Melinda Messenger needs to learn to let down their guard, allow people to love them, and allow for mistakes to be made.

4. Melinda Messenger' Secret Weapon

The realization that life is so much more than what we see. Melinda Messenger sign is in tune with the magic of everyday existence and can find beauty in all situations, even ones that may cause tears. Recognizing these moments of beauty and being able to share them with others is what makes Melinda Messenger a creative sign, and is also what makes Melinda Messenger a soulful sign.

5. The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Melinda Messenger

  • Your intuition is spot-on. No need to go on a date. You know that person is bad news from first look.
  • Your playful sense of fun. It may not be as obvious as other signs, but you have a childlike view of the world that you can unleash, spending hours happily looking for shells with your kids.
  • Your lack of judgment. What other people do is their business, but you'll always take the time to listen to them and offer your thoughts and opinions—but only if asked.
  • Your love of nature. You truly believe we are all connected, and you inspire people with the way you understand the rhythm of the seasons.
  • Your cool factor. You don't care if people think you're cool—which makes you that much more impressive. You set trends, call the shots, and lead by example, and don't even break a sweat.

Friendship:

1. What Are Melinda Messenger Like as Friends?

A Melinda Messenger can feel like a great friend—until you consider how much you actually know about them. While Melinda Messenger are natural therapists within the Zodiac, they can be cagey about who they are, never revealing their full selves until they trust you—and sometimes, they may never reveal who they truly are. A Melinda Messenger can sometimes seem chilly and reserved to acquaintances, and it may seem hard to pull them out of their shell.

2. Best Friend Match for Melinda Messenger: Cancer

Both water signs, Cancer and Melinda Messenger are intense. They seem to have an almost psychic connection with each other, and can read the air around each other, knowing when the other needs space or when the other's soul is dying to LOL at a comedy night. These two signs see, respect, and even admire all parts of the other—even the parts that may seem dark and twisty to others.

Melinda Messenger and Cancer have deep respect for intellectual and cultural pursuits, and love to challenge each other. Sometimes, the tightest Melinda Messenger and Cancer combinations are those who are idealistic opposites—while these two can get in intense disagreements, the respect they have for each other elevates the pair above arguments. They may never believe the other's point of view, but they can respect it.

Melinda Messenger and Cancer understand that sometimes, the best thing you can do for a friendship is give it room to grow, and while both signs have sometimes been known to have a jealous streak, this isn't the case when these two signs seek out other friendships. They know that you can't hold onto a person (at least in friendship; sometimes this lesson is harder to learn when it comes to love) and that space can sometimes make you closer.

3. How to Make Friends with a Melinda Messenger

Respect them. Respect goes a long way for a Melinda Messenger, and even a comment made in jest can be taken personally by this sign. While this sign does have a sense of humor, it can sometimes take some time to figure out which jokes will land with a Melinda Messenger, so it's best to be earnest until you get to know them. A Melinda Messenger is always looking for people that they can connect with on an intellectual level, so sharing a book, film, or music recommendation can be a great way to get to know a Melinda Messenger. While a Melinda Messenger may seem cagey talking about their inner self, talking about the arts is a great way to understand how a Melinda Messenger views the world.

4. How to Stay Friends with a Melinda Messenger

Let them be them—while you stay you. Some friendships crumble over a difference of opinion. That isn't the case for Melinda Messenger, who like when their social circle has wildly divergent views. That said, a Melinda Messenger does not tolerate hypocrisy. Doing one thing, then saying another, is a far greater sin to a Melinda Messenger than simply doing what you've set out to do in the first place.

5. 3 Reasons Why Melinda Messenger Make Great Friends

  • They're so tapped into culture. Whether you need the next great designer, podcast everyone's going to be talking about, or new app, a Melinda Messenger has the best recommendations.
  • They let you feel. How many times have you heard a friend say "it's going to be okay,"—when you're not sure if that's the case? A Melinda Messenger won't say that. Instead, they'll let you go to the depths of despair, staying by your side the whole time. In that, they can help you realize that the worst is never the worst when you have a friend by your side.
  • They have a unique way of seeing the world. You'll never be bored hanging out with a Melinda Messenger. A Melinda Messenger can always come up with fun things to do—even if the two of you have zero dollars between the two of you. Even a Netflix session is made more interesting by the unique perspective Melinda Messenger brings to life.

Love:

1. Melinda Messenger in Love

Melinda Messenger in love is passionate, intense, and singular. A relationship with a Melinda Messenger is a roller-coaster ride that will make you feel your feelings—even the bad ones—and help you emerge as a better, more honest person. Even if a relationship with a Melinda Messenger doesn't last, the lessons you learn from a Melinda Messenger partner will.

A Melinda Messenger will go all-in when it comes to romance, and expects their partner to do the same. It's not as if a Melinda Messenger is clingy—on the contrary, a Melinda Messenger can seem incredibly independent while in a relationship—but a Melinda Messenger constantly views the world as if from a split-screen: The world through their eyes, and the world through their partner's eyes. They're always trying to make the choices that are the best for both parties, and even small decisions, like where to order Seamless, are made with that perspective in mind.

A Melinda Messenger wants their partner to grow, and demands that their partner brings their very best self to the relationship. That may cause some partners to feel like they're being pushed away, as a Melinda Messenger partner will likely say of course they should seek a promotion, more time at the gym, or a goal, even if it means spending time apart.

For Melinda Messenger, the physical, spiritual, and intellectual are deeply intertwined, and in relationships, physicality is an important manifestation of love. Melinda Messenger can be incredibly sensual when they're feeling deeply in love, but isn't a sign that ever fakes anything. Melinda Messenger demands full presence in a relationship, and is especially hurt by any sort of deception. A Melinda Messenger demands full honesty and gives the same in return.

2. Favorite Date Nights for Melinda Messenger

A Melinda Messenger needs to be in the mood to go on a date, and if a Melinda Messenger calls to say they're not feeling it, it's best to reschedule. It's not a blow-off, it's just that Melinda Messenger are ruled by their emotions, and a bad mood can often equal a bad date.

So when the mood is right, where do you go? One sure way to a Melinda Messenger heart is to share some of your favorite places with them. Melinda Messenger can seem reserved at first, and they often feel safer is a partner opens up first, especially in the early days of dating. To a Melinda Messenger, seeing your favorite restaurant or ice cream place is a way for them to play anthropologist, and they will love asking you questions to get to know your likes, quirks, and tastes more.

For the best date, try to split the difference: You bring them to your favorite dinner place, but have them introduce you to their favorite dessert place. And Melinda Messenger doesn't believe in any first date do's or don'ts—of course, it's nice to pay the whole bill, but if they offer to pay their share, accept them at their word and agree.

3. The Deal with Melinda Messenger and Fire Signs

It's common for water sign Melinda Messenger to be attracted to fire signs—Aries, Leo, Sagittarius—who can be way too passionate and intense for Melinda Messenger. These partnerships often end in duh-rama, so why do they happen?

Well, it all comes down to the "opposites attract" principle. Yes, Melinda Messenger is driven crazy by fire signs. But there's something about their passion and conviction—even if the conviction is short-lived—that is appealing to Melinda Messenger. While the passion of a Melinda Messenger is often internally rooted and directed, Melinda Messenger admires the way fire signs wear their passion on their sleeves. A Melinda Messenger will see an injustice and intellectually come up with several options for correcting it. A fire sign will make noise, make themselves seen, and attempt to get that injustice fixed in that very second. That "looking before you leap" line of thinking is infuriating—and pretty captivating, too.

So, can things work out between a Melinda Messenger and a fire sign? Yes—but both sides have to be prepared to give a little. A Melinda Messenger needs to remember they can't change their fire sign partner, and a fire sign needs to understand that a Melinda Messenger will take their bluster at face value. Both sides may need to learn to calm down, communicate, and give each other space to work things out in their own way.

4. How to Seduce a Melinda Messenger

A Melinda Messenger may be prickly on the first conversation. Or the tenth. That may be a sign you're trying too hard to please them. For a Melinda Messenger, the most annoying thing in the world is for you to try to get them to like you. Either they like you—the real you—or they don't. Don't overthink and be yourself, but these moves—if they're moves that you already do—will also be positively received by a Melinda Messenger.

Have an in-process book on your Kindle: A Melinda Messenger will ask what book you're reading—and chances are, they've read it too.

Let them see your bedhead. Whether it's diving into the ocean or going on a miles-long hike, a Melinda Messenger doesn't want to be tied down to someone who always cares if their hair, makeup, and clothes are perfectly in place. A Melinda Messenger wants to get dirty—and wants to find someone comfortable with getting dirty, too.

Have a POV. Don't try to fish around for their political beliefs just so it can sound like you're on the same page as them. A Melinda Messenger wants to see the real you, and won't cut you off because they don't have the same viewpoint as you. As long as you're respectful and open to other ideologies, share your point of view with pride.

5. How to Make Love to a Melinda Messenger

To a Melinda Messenger, the body and mind are intertwined, and great sex starts with an emotional and intellectual connection. A Melinda Messenger needs to feel safe to truly let go and it's important to talk about their feelings before—and in—the act. With that in mind, talk about how much your Melinda Messenger means to you. How incredible their body feels. And make sure both of you have time to wind down with plenty of pillow talk.

A Melinda Messenger gets turned on by fantasy, and may or may not want to make those fantasies a reality. Just as powerful to a Melinda Messenger, though, is feeling safe enough to talk through some of their deepest desires. Having code names that are used just in the bedroom and lingerie or toys only taken out on certain occasions can also be a great way to connect, as Melinda Messenger loves the feeling of having secrets kept only between them and their partner.

6. If You Love a Melinda Messenger Woman

For a Melinda Messenger woman, emotions are tied to her deepest self, and all her emotions are true in the moment. Understand that calling her "emotional" will only alienate you—a Melinda Messenger woman knows that her emotions may be mercurial, but in the moment, you must understand that what she is feeling is real.

A Melinda Messenger woman wants a partner to understand her need for self-evolution, self-identity, and private time. A Melinda Messenger woman needs honesty, respect, and transparency. If you love a Melinda Messenger woman, commit to having an egalitarian relationship where you will regularly examine, discuss, and decode each other's feelings—but where going deep will only make you closer.

7. How to Communicate with a Melinda Messenger Woman

Be honest at all times. It's a concept much easier said than done, but a Melinda Messenger woman respects honesty more than anything. A Melinda Messenger woman also can sometimes "feel" your mood, even if you don't voice what you're feeling or thinking, so being able to meet her where she "feels" you is essential. In other words, don't say everything's fine if it's not.

10. Should You Marry a Melinda Messenger?

Yes! Passionate, intense, and incredibly smart, a Melinda Messenger will push you further than you thought you could go. A Melinda Messenger will give you a unique perspective on life, and a Melinda Messenger will teach you that even—especially—when a relationship is challenging, that's sometimes when it's most worth fighting for. A Melinda Messenger will help you fall even more in love with yourself and your potential, and a partnership with a Melinda Messenger will only make you feel more you.

11. Signs That a Melinda Messenger Is Playing for Keeps

Aloof Melinda Messenger can seem hard to understand—while it may feel like they know everything about you, it may feel like you know hardly anything about them. But there are a few ways you can tell a Melinda Messenger is serious.

  • They comment on your Insta. A Melinda Messenger tends to keep their emotions—and their social circle—pretty close to their chest. When they publicly comment on your social media feed, it's a sign they want the world to know that they are with you.
  • They spend a night (and breakfast) with you. For a Melinda Messenger, an overnight is a big deal. It's not about being intimate, it's about waking up the next morning, figuring out a shower schedule, and pulling together breakfast. To a Melinda Messenger, those are truly intimate acts, and only reserved for those people they want to be in their life for the long term.
  • They say I love you. Yes, this sounds like an obvious sign of affection. But a Melinda Messenger will never say this phrase lightly, so when they say it to you, it's a sign they really mean it.

12. Melinda Messenger Relationship Red Flags

A Melinda Messenger won't stay in a relationship that's not working, and they're likely to tell you pretty quickly if they feel like things are off. That said, there are a few relationship red flags to look for when you're involved with a Melinda Messenger. In a relationship, a Melinda Messenger will celebrate your accomplishments as if they're his or her own, so if they're not asking you about your goals, congratulating you on milestones, or immersing themselves in your latest passions, it's a sign something's off. A Melinda Messenger also wants to be their best self when they're with someone they love, so if it seems like they're slacking off, seem goalless, or seem directionless or unhappy with their own lives, it could be a sign they're also unhappy with their relationship.

13. How Melinda Messenger Deals with a Broken Heart

When a Melinda Messenger has a broken heart, they hurt. They know the only way through the pain is to really feel it, and sometimes, a week in bed, with Adele blasting and romcoms playing on Netflix is the best medicine. Give them space to heal, and don't offer platitudes. Let them hurt, let them cry, and give them a shoulder to lean on when they need it.

Lifestyle:

1. For the Melinda Messenger In Your Life

Best gifts: Jewelry. Not just any necklace, but a necklace, bracelet, or ring with meaning is important to Melinda Messenger, who sees jewelry as talisman for them, and likes having jewelry to anchor them to people, a goal, or a memory.

Best spa package: A watsu massage. A massage that takes place in water? Sign any Melinda Messenger up. This massage therapy can make people feel like they're back in the womb, and is especially meaningful to water sign Melinda Messenger.

Best cocktail: A spiked seltzer. For Melinda Messenger, less can be more, and a Melinda Messenger may decline a drink. It's not that they don't want to have fun, it's that chemicals can affect their brains and bodies in powerful ways. A spiked seltzer with a low alcohol content can help get the party started for a Melinda Messenger without pushing them over the edge.

2. How Melinda Messenger Unwinds

Melinda Messenger loves water, and their happy place is the ocean, the river, or even sitting somewhere they can hear the sound of water trickling down a fountain. Melinda Messenger also loves nature, and spending time outside each day—even if it's just a walk to and from the car—is very important in calibrating their well-being. While a Melinda Messenger loves spending time with close friends, Melinda Messenger also finds it invaluable to have solo time to unwind, either by reading a book or listening to music with headphones.

3. Melinda Messenger Social Life

Melinda Messenger has their pick of friends, but tends to prefer a small group. In general, Melinda Messenger prefer one-on-one or intimate gatherings to parties, and find that their energy can easily drain if they have too many social engagements planned back to back. A Melinda Messenger is great at coming up with fun ideas, and can breathe new life into the same old dinner routine, just by implementing a new rule—only dessert items—or bringing interesting conversation topics to the mix.

4. Melinda Messenger Favorite Season

Moody, mysterious, plenty of time to talk about the mysteries of life under the covers, and a built-in "weather's too bad, sorry!" excuse to not go out on weekends? Bring on winter. Melinda Messenger can find beauty in even the coldest days, and loves how winter gives them time to pause, reflex, and look below the surface.

5. The Best Vacations for Melinda Messenger

Bring on the beach! But forget about an all-inclusive resort. Melinda Messenger love finding hidden beaches, lakes, or streams, and will happily hike miles if it means it's only them—and the people they want around them—enjoying the water. Melinda Messenger depends on vacations to recalibrate their internal clock to the rhythm of the universe, and needs to self-direct their itinerary. A Melinda Messenger loves to allow their intuition to help them make plans, and they're not happy if they feel like they have to follow someone else's itinerary. A Melinda Messenger may spend their vacation doing the same things they would at home—same coffee-making routine, same books, same favorite activities—but within the routine is where they can find excitement and adventure.

6. Melinda Messenger Power Colors

Is it any surprise that fish are drawn to colors that reflect the sea? Sure, blue is a no-brainer, but Melinda Messenger are also drawn to greens, oranges, yellows, and even tans, blacks, and grays—any color you might see in the sea. While some signs are drawn to primary colors, Melinda Messenger love muted palates that may appear differently depending on who's looking.

Sea green: A greenish-blue reminds Melinda Messenger that everything is temporary and shifting, just like the sea.

Silver: Shiny, shimmery, and reminiscent of the moon, silver dazzles in a way that's more low-key—but no less brilliant—than gold and other elemental colors.

Lilac: Muted pastels, like the color of the spring, speak to Melinda Messenger affinity for changeability, while subtly giving a nod to the colors often seen in early spring, the time of year Melinda Messenger owns on the calendar.

Gray: Melinda Messenger sees the world in shades of possibility, and gray speaks to the perspective Melinda Messenger brings to any situation, where nothing is good or bad, but everything is based on how the person in the situation sees it unfolding.

The colors that Melinda Messenger should avoid are:

Gold: Glittery and ostentatious, this color can be far too ostentatious and "look at me" for Melinda Messenger, who prefers a more low-key persona.

Red: Affiliated with the root chakra, red can be too passionate and intense for Melinda Messenger, who like to be more cool-minded and analytical when it comes to any decision in their lives.

Orange: Affiliated with the sacral chakra, orange is similarly grounding and at odds with the ethereal personality of a Melinda Messenger.

Health:

1. Best Fitness Routines for Melinda Messenger

Aqua Zumba. Not only is this dance class in your second home, the pool, but the water takes down some of the heat of the workout and makes it fun. Not only that, but you'll dig the camaraderie and find plenty of workout buddies on the same page as you.

2. About Those Melinda Messenger Foot Issues

Melinda Messenger rule the feet, and small and large issues can bring a Melinda Messenger to the podiatrist's office throughout his or her life. Melinda Messenger doesn't like to be constricted, and shoes can be a metaphor for how Melinda Messenger feel in the roles they must play in the world. They may feel constricted or uncomfortable. The advice find shoes that fit may sound simple, but it may behoove Melinda Messenger to take that advice seriously—and find plenty of places and times they can kick their shoes off and feel free. And pay attention to how your feet feel—getting prompt and proactive care can help you feel more comfortable on both a physical and psychological level.

3. The Top 10 Ways Melinda Messenger Beats the Blues

Melinda Messenger may seem moody, but the fact that they're in tune with their emotions can be a great thing. While others looking at them may think a Melinda Messenger may seem overly emo, a Melinda Messenger knows that it's far better to let their emotions out, rather than bottle them up. With that said, here's how a Melinda Messenger can beat their blues and feel better fast.

Spirituality:

1. Melinda Messenger' Spiritual Side

Emotional, intuitive, and a little psychic, Melinda Messenger has always been drawn to the unsolved mysteries of the universe. Melinda Messenger is uncomfortable with absolutes, and prefers to live in the uncertainty when it comes to unanswered questions about who they are and why they are on this earth. Melinda Messenger can be great religious leaders—they see beyond dogma and look to the individual's following the religion, and are able to communicate well with their followers.

Melinda Messenger can sometimes experience a crisis of faith when it feels like who they are is far away from who they want to be, or when they feel like they're living a life that's inconsistent with the morals they've set for themselves. A Melinda Messenger becomes deeply invested in what they do, and to that end, a job, for example, is never "just" a job. That's why a Melinda Messenger who has an immoral or selfish boss can be incredibly demoralizing to a Melinda Messenger.

Melinda Messenger finds "worship" in all places, and may feel like being outside in nature is what they most need to recalibrate their spiritual side. A Melinda Messenger is constantly searching, constantly evolving, and experiences their faith as uniquely personal—they are cautious to share how they feel and would never dream of telling friends that they "should" see the world in the same way they do.

2. Melinda Messenger Karma Boosters

Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Melinda Messenger, that's learning to find community and connection with those around them. While Melinda Messenger is loyal, they see themselves as individuals in a sea of individuals. Learning to connect is a smart step for Melinda Messenger. Here, top five karma boosters for Melinda Messenger.

Career & Money:

1. Melinda Messenger Work Style

The idea of working in an open-plan office with set hours can make the skin of a Melinda Messenger crawl, and because of that, Melinda Messenger are much more suited to artistic, entrepreneurial, or vocational endeavors. A Melinda Messenger has a strong work ethic, but only when a Melinda Messenger believes the work is worth doing. You'll never catch a Melinda Messenger staying at the office late just for optics, and a Melinda Messenger may need to learn to play by corporate rules for long-term success.

Melinda Messenger can work solo, and loves getting completely wrapped up in a project at hand. Money isn't necessarily important to Melinda Messenger, but they do appreciate creature comforts, and they also appreciate the respect and visibility that money and a title can bring. A Melinda Messenger does not want their work to be ignored, and a Melinda Messenger will get resentful if a boss doesn't notice and reward a job well done.

Melinda Messenger may have several careers in their life. They realize that nothing is permanent, and also realize that the right career can help lead them to happiness. When a Melinda Messenger realizes a certain path is no longer working, they don't consider it a waste to start from the bottom in a new industry or to go back to school. Melinda Messenger sees their career path as being one more way to learn and evolve.

2. Melinda Messenger' Dream Careers

Pastor: While Melinda Messenger may be willing to give up their worldly goods, this career choice allows them to straddle the line between professional and pious. And since Melinda Messenger naturally spends a lot of time in reverie, a natural progression would be to sit lost in their thoughts either over prayer or some other daydream. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Therapist, Psychologist.

Boat Captain: Spending a lot of time alone on the sea would be very compelling for a Melinda Messenger. There wouldn't be a lot of distractions, except for the occasional ship going by and they can gaze out onto the horizon, lost in their thoughts, until they turn in for the night. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Lighthouse Keeper, Fisherman, Coast Guard Officer.

Psychic: A psychic medium works flexible hours which bodes well for Melinda Messenger need for an unstructured environment. Free to create visions and impressions, they can use their intuition and imagination to gently guide others to their right path. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Career Counselor, Life Coach, Therapist.

Pharmacist: Melinda Messenger love to be around and dispense drugs thanks to their fascination with the properties and qualities of substances and their effect on the human body. This career choice will make good money while using this water sign's natural compassion and concern for others' well-being. The tough part would be the long, rigorous educational path for a pharmaceutical degree, but worth it in the end. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Scientist, Biologist, Nutritionist.

Mixologist: The intuitive nature of Melinda Messenger lends itself naturally to mixing drinks where they are able to use their creativity and combine unusual flavor profiles and turn them into crowd-pleasing cocktails. The perfect setting would be a bar with live music at the beach or a Tiki bar in the tropics. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Social Worker, Sommelier, Perfumier, Lab Technician.

Music Teacher: Melinda Messenger is perfectly suited to teaching the foundations of music. In this position they are able to share their love of music, how it inspires them and compels them to learn and practice more. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Musician, Singer, Composer.

Filmmaker: Melinda Messenger excels at anything that involves a vivid imagination. In film, they can create another world that is highly real but not necessarily capable of existing. And when working on a project of this nature, Melinda Messenger can summon the inner resources to create something spectacular. Think of the work of Spielberg or Lucas to understand what they are capable of. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Artist, Fashion Designer, Textile Designer, Muralist.

Photographer: The unique Melinda Messenger vision is brought to life by the camera lens and modern technology has made life even more interesting for this water sign because they can now alter their images digitally. Their artwork can be enhanced through visual effects to create stunning, dreamy images. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Creative Director, Graphic Artist, Cartoonist.

Animator: This career demands a high level of visual imagination, concentration as well as technical knowledge. Concentrating for long hours can be a real challenge but when creating an animation, Melinda Messenger are capable of becoming quite lost in the project. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Puppeteer, Toy Designer, Architect, Landscape Designer.

Addictions Counselor: Many Melinda Messenger long to help others but first, they must help themselves. If they can face and rise above their own demons, they will have the success working with others to beat their addictions. Other professions that fit within this realm include: Therapist, Counselor, Life Coach.

3. Melinda Messenger and Money

A Melinda Messenger can find—and lose—money easily, and may feel like reputation or recognition is far more important than a paycheck. A Melinda Messenger can be careless with the money they do have. It's not uncommon for a Melinda Messenger to frequently lose their debit or credit card, or to not bother to invoice for payment. A Melinda Messenger' sense of self-worth is independent of what they make.

But of course, a Melinda Messenger is no stranger to reality, and knows that having money can ward off uncertainty and insecurity. Melinda Messenger has a deep confidence in their resourcefulness skills, and doesn't second guess themselves when it comes to applying for jobs—even those that they may not be qualified for. A Melinda Messenger also recognizes that they have weak spots when it comes to finances, and often employs a professional to help walk them through financial admin, so they can focus more on their work.

4. If You Work for a Melinda Messenger Boss

A Melinda Messenger boss can be tough to figure out. One day, they may seem like your best friend. Another day, they may seem cold. And while it seems like they don't follow any corporate rules, they'll bristle if you also seem lackadaisical when it comes to office protocol. A Melinda Messenger doesn't want their employees sucking up to them, but may feel hurt if there are other employees that you seem to like better or be closer with than them. A Melinda Messenger says they don't care about office politics, but may become entrenched in discussing office gossip or scandal.

In other words, a Melinda Messenger boss is a contradiction. The best Melinda Messenger bosses know this, and engage in management courses to address weak spots. While it's not uncommon to go through a few rough spots with a Melinda Messenger boss, a Melinda Messenger boss values honesty above all else. Remember this, and know that a Melinda Messenger boss will respect you forever if you well the truth, even if it's not what they want to here. Here, other Melinda Messenger boss traits:

A free thinker. A Melinda Messenger doesn't naturally fit in a corporate culture—even if they are the CEO of that corporation. Because of this, they can sometimes get in trouble with HR.

Intuitive. A Melinda Messenger balks at sharing the "why" behind their reasoning. While they can justify anything with a spreadsheet if they have to, a Melinda Messenger has incredible gut instinct that rarely lead them astray.

Unique. You've never worked with a boss like this before, which is either a good thing or a bad thing. A Melinda Messenger boss wants you to be you, just as they are themselves, and won't try to fit a mold.

Loyal. If you're honest and do a good job, expect to be rewarded. A Melinda Messenger will try to do their best by you. If you do get off on the wrong foot, try to talk through what's happening in the relationship. It may be an awkward conversation, but it can clear the path to a successful working relationship in the future.

Mercurial. Recognizing that a Melinda Messenger' boss moods rise and fall—and it's (usually) not personal can be the best way to learn to work with a Melinda Messenger boss. Sometimes they need their space. Respect that, and time your visits to the water cooler accordingly.

5. What Success Menas to a Melinda Messenger

For Melinda Messenger, success means the feeling of flow. Money is entering their bank account, they feel like they are doing solid work at their jobs. When the flow starts to feel awkward, or it feels like things aren't working, it's a sign for Melinda Messenger to reassess and make changes. A Melinda Messenger doesn't identify themselves by their job title or the amount of money in their wallet, but if they feel bad, it's a sign that something isn't working.

Predictions for the year 2022:

1. Overview

You love to look on the bright side, and with your home planet Neptune traveling in your idealistic sign all year, you get the chance to stay in your ideal little dream world a lot in 2022. The good news is that you can rely heavily on your intuition and what your subconscious creates in the way of daydreams and visions to give you surprisingly accurate info about which direction to take this year.

However, Neptune’s retrograde cycle does last half the year, from the end of June through the end of December, which could cause your idealistic outlook on life to come to a screeching halt. Once you get used to living in a dreamy haze early in the year, you won’t want to face some of the realities that are evident now, but you’re actually tougher than you seem, Melinda Messenger. This is a good time to show everyone what you’re capable of when you decide not to procrastinate any more.
The sun drifts through your creative, intuitive sign from the end of February to the end of March, so have fun celebrating your solar return this spring! Because you thrive in your own dreamy imagination, you’re an introvert who craves solitude to daydream all about the possibilities that life has to offer. Spending your special birthday time with your closest friend at a cabin by a lake or reading books alone on a beach would be ideal.

2. Couples

Just because your relationship might not be what you’d like it to be as the year begins, don’t give up hope, Melinda Messenger. As Venus spends her time retrograde in serious Capricorn at the start of the year, you’ll be deep in thought assessing and reviewing the mistakes you’ve made, and potentially blaming yourself for the lack of success you might feel your relationship is experiencing. Shake it off, though, because once you get done beating yourself up over the past, you have real work to do in the present.

By the time Venus gets to your compassionate sign early in April, you’ll be back under a hypnotic love spell that will help you remember why you fell in love in the first place. This is an ideal time to work on deepening your emotional connection and move to a more intense phase of your relationship. Watch out for only celebrating the good while ignoring the bad now, however. Looking on the bright side is great, but ignoring your problems won’t make them go away.

There’s a Melinda Messenger full moon to look forward to early in September that finds you at your most compassionate and understanding. Your receptive and sympathetic mood makes it easy for your partner to open up to you, and this can be a very healing time in your relationship. You might have a harder time forgetting than forgiving, but time heals all wounds. If you’re struggling internally about any pain you’ve experienced so far this year, give it until next month’s full moon and see how you feel then.

3. Singles

Is this your year to find true love, Melinda Messenger? Your love life gets a fiery boost from the aggressive combination of Mars in Sagittarius at the start of the year, immediately helping you be more spontaneous and adventurous. You come out of your shell ready to expand in all kinds of new ways, including romance. If you’re usually the type who sits back and lets other people make the first move, you might surprise yourself by asking out your secret crush (or at least sending them a flirty text)!

Love-seeking Venus pairs up with sensitive water sign Cancer in the middle of July, and you should feel more at home and comfortable surrounded by this emotionally sensitive energy. There is great potential for intimacy now, but you won’t be into superficial flirting, quickies, or one-night stands. Building a solid partnership (and even a family) is at the root of this transit’s desires, so you’ll be attracted to other singles who want the same security and emotional connection that you’re looking for in a relationship now.

Asteroid Vesta’s energy is linked with spirituality, sexuality, and boundaries, and as it spends time in your introverted and somewhat inhibited sign from late November through the rest of the year, you’ll most likely be unwilling to be sexually open with someone until you know and fully trust them. Morality and religion can also be blocks to fully expressing your sexual self now, and it’s imperative that you know that honoring your personal beliefs and boundaries is nothing to be ashamed of. Don’t give in to pressure from anyone to do anything you aren’t ready for or just don’t want to do, Melinda Messenger.

4. Money & Career

You might not be the most confident person when it comes to career and financial situations, Melinda Messenger, but this year you’re ready to take advantage of all the great opportunities that come your way. It’s important to note that innovative Uranus is partnered with conservative earth sign Taurus for most of the year, so changes are slow to begin and steady to grow. It’s important to keep an open mind when dealing with both your job and your bank account, but if you feel rushed into making a decision, then that particular opportunity isn’t for you.

Venus rules over money, and when she’s in steady money-savvy Taurus at the end of May, this is when your finances should get the most attention. Saving will be your top priority now, or if you’ve managed to put some money away for a rainy day, this is also a good time to look around for bargains on solid items with long-term potential. Think quality furniture and good jewelry. Long-term, conservative investments should be considered now as well, and the lower the risk the better. If you haven’t put a retirement plan in place, make an appointment with a financial advisor in the next couple weeks.

Expansive Jupiter is in your creative sign until the first part of May, so you might have some career and financial opportunities that can benefit from your imagination and idealistic outlook. Could you find your dream job now? Quite possibly, especially if it has to do with helping others. You attract the most luck now when you use your compassion and understanding for the greater good, and what benefits the people you help comes back to you in one positive way or another. Financially, you have excellent intuition now, and you could hit some winning numbers in the lottery on a whim. This is also a good time to take care of things like wills and trusts, because your charitable, generous mood will be in full swing.

General features:

Creative, sensitive, artistic

Element: Water
Polarity: Negative
Quality: Mutable
Ruling Planet: Neptune
Ruling House: Twelfth
Spirit color: Sea green
Lucky gem: Moonstone
Flower: Water lily
Top Love Matches: Virgo