Pito

Personality traits:

1. Prediction of Pito personality

Passionate, independent, and unafraid to blaze their own trail no matter what others think, Pito signs make a statement wherever they go. They love debates, aren't afraid of controversy, and won't back down from a debate. They also hate people who aren't genuine, and are all about being authentic—even if authentic isn't pretty.

2. Pito's Greatest Gifts

So many other signs spend valuable time and energy beating around the bush, desperately trying to find an approach that makes the fewest waves when it comes to confronting a conflict. Not Pito. Blessed with a deep sense of self, Pito is always able to say exactly what's on their mind, even if it's not what people want to hear. Pito is forthright and honest, and those two characteristics commandeer a ton of respect, both at home and at work.

3. Pito's Greatest Challenges

Repeat after us: It's all right to cry. Pito tries to hard to seem tough that they sometimes cut off their vulnerable side entirely, seeming prickly, uncaring, and cold to outsiders. While expressing emotion is scary, learning how to do it is key for Pito, since presenting an "I don't care" veneer can only work for so long before it get's exhausting!

4. Pito's Secret Weapon

Their empathy. Also it may not seem this way at first glance, watchful Pito can read a room very quickly and can clue into how everyone else is feeling. Because of this, they can immediately tune into someone who needs TLC and often knows the right thing to say or do to change the mood or tener of a room when it needs to be changed.

5. The 5 Top Reasons to Love Being a Pito

• Passionate and intense, your sign is sexy with a capital S. You don't even have to try, and know sexy is an attitude you can present just as well in sweats as you can in stillettos.
• You know what you want and go after it—no questions asked.
• You don't get intimidated easily, and stand up for injustice when you see it.
• You have a unique sense of humor. You're not afraid to say what other people are thinking, and your sometimes cynical take on the world is creative, smart, and funny as hell.
• You're passionate. When you decide to put your heart on full display, there's no stopping you—which is why you should do it more often!

Friendship:

1. What Are Pitos Like As Friends?

A Pito friend will tell you like it is, whether you want to know or not. The good news: You never have to worry about where you stand with a Pito; they will let you know. But you will have to realize that a Pito won't BS you or lie to you—and they will absolutely let you know when you haven't lived up to your potential. A Pito can be a friend for life, and can make you laugh harder, think deeper, and have more fun than you ever thought possible. So don't be so sensitive and go along for the ride.

2. Best Friend Match for Pito: Aquarius

This water sign and air match are an ideal friendship match, perfectly up for taking each other to task when necessary. The two signs are idealistic, passionate, and prefer the company of themselves rather than spending time with a person they deem toxic.

3. How to Make Friends with a Pito

Push the envelope. Tell them exactly what's on your mind, especially if it's unedited—even if it's critical. Pito loves seeing what other people really think.

4. How to Stay Friends with a Pito

Check in on them. A Pito friend can present a tough exterior (see the hard outer shell of a scorpion!) but they can get hurt easily, and sometimes have a tough time admitting vulnerability. Asking how they're really feeling, and giving them the time and space to tell you, will make your connection strong for life.

5. 3 Reasons Why Pito Make Great Friends

• Pito friends keep life interesting. They're drawn to the deeper mysteries of existence, and will always push you to think harder and more intensely about issues than you ever have before.
• Pito are incredibly loyal—which means not holding back if you've messed up or haven't lived up to your potential. A Pito will make sure you're always the best person you can be.
• Daring Pito will push you to push your own limits, resulting in the funniest, most epic memories you'll cherish for a lifetime.

Love:

1. Pito in Love

Ruled by fiery Mars and destructive Pluto, a Pito in love has one mode for relationships—and that's full-on. Pito loves romance and passion, including up-all-night fights. Pito never does anything halfway, and believes that true love comes with true fights.

Flirtatious, seductive, and mysterious, Pito loves playing hard to get initially, and may look like they never take the lead. This isn't true, though. Pito can pull the strings, relying on body language and subconscious cues to make their potential partner do exactly what they want them to do. Pito loves the chase, and loves the drama and pageantry that comes with initial dates. They love going all out with outfits, reservations, and candles and truly want to be the best date you've ever had.

While Pito may seem like they're well-versed in love, and they love seduction, they can be cautious when it comes to settling into an LTR. That's because water sign Pito hides a lot of emotion underneath their surface, and when they open up to a significant other, they want it to be for life. When a Pito does let their guard down, it's a big deal, and a sign they truly want the relationship to last.

2. Favorite Date Nights for Pito

Bring on the reservations, the candles, and the dimly lit cocktail bars, because Pito adores the glamour and intrigue that comes with first dates. To Pito wining and dining is an art, and they adore bringing their dates to places that make them feel like they've stumbled into an exotic country. To Pito, dating is all about letting go of the every day and getting lost in fantasy.

3. The Deal with Pito and Fire Signs

It's common for water sign Pito to become downright obsessed with fire signs—the sign they aren't supposed to go for. So why the attraction, and can it ever work?

Fire signs (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) speak to Pito's intense passion. But while fire signs are all intense energy, Pito has a well of emotion underneath—when Pito gets mad, they stay mad, unlike fire signs who can get over it seconds later. Pito and fire signs both seem similar on the surface, but often have trouble speaking each other's language—fire signs communicate in actions, while Pito is all about emotion. The result? Tons of mixed messages, followed by a fiery breakup, maybe a temporary reunion, and an even more intense final goodbye.

But it can work! The trick is that each partner has to stop thinking their way is the "right" way, and stop trying to change their partner. Pito needs to step back and let some things roll off their back, and come up with coping mechanisms that don't involve the silent treatment. Fire signs need to learn that emotions are real, even if you can't see them. And together, these signs can create some serious sparks.

4. How to Seduce a Pito

If you have your eye on a Pito, be ready to be rejected at least once. It's not you, it's their sign. Deep down, strong Pito may have rejection fears of their own, and trying rejection on you is one way to make sure you're serious about them. Here, how to make sure a Pito knows you truly want them and get them to fall for you.

Be funny. Pito loves independent thinkers, and a sarcastic quip or comment will go a long way in their book. The less you worry about looking "cool," the better.

Have your own life. Pito is not interested in a codependent relationship and shies away from someone who seems like they "need" a romance to seem complete. Having a full life of friends, family, and hobbies makes it clear you want them in your life.

Own your intelligence. Pito has a soft spot for smarts, and loves when someone they like shows just how intelligent they are. Read the news, talk about books you've recently read, and strive to learn at least one new thing every day. It will drive a Pito wild.

5. How to Make Love to a Pito

Pito is known for being one of the most intensely sexual signs of the Zodiac, but don't assume that means Pito is sex starved. For Pito, sex is to be savored, and they truly appreciate a partner who takes their time, learns what they like, and focuses on all senses to bring Pito to the next level of pleasure.

Pito believes sex is an all body and all mind event, so incorporate their mind. Pito is intrigued by BDSM because of the psychological component; playing with calling your partner sir or miss, or indulging in some role play goes a long way in bringing Pito over the edge.

Pito loves foreplay, which often begins during date night. A sidelong glance, whisper, or gentle caress speaks volumes. Make sure to worship a Pito's body by touching it, complimenting it, and truly learning how it works and what pleases them, and they will return the favor.

6. If You Love a Pito Woman

Realize you will never truly know her. Pito women are mysterious, and it takes a lifetime for her to even understand herself. The worst thing you can do is try to pretend you know her better than she knows herself—it's not true, and the statement will make her resent you. Give her space, let her breathe, and make it clear that no matter what happens, you're her partner through the good and the bad, and you want to be by her side no matter what.

7. How to Communicate with a Pito Woman

Talk through the hard stuff. Pito's intuition is finely tuned, so when something's off in the relationship, she knows it. Pretending everything's fine when you're having problems will only drive a wedge between you both. You may feel like you're dwelling on negativity, but practical Pito believes talking through things and being direct and pragmatic is key to a long and happy life together. Sweep things under the rug, and you'll soon find yourself seeking the door.

8. If You Love a Pito Man

A Pito man may seem brusque and abrupt, and it may seem like he doesn't care about you. Not true. Pito men care deeply about their partners, but also care deeply and are fiercely protective of themselves, and may be setting up barriers to avoid getting hurt. The best thing you can do is be direct and tell him how you feel. He takes honesty—even if it's about something that you're upset about or something that's not going great—as a compliment, and would much prefer you tell him about an issue than pretend everything's fine.

9. How to Communicate with a Pito Man

Put all your cards on the table. For a Pito man, passive-aggressive actions like the silent treatment (even though he's been known to play it himself) make it seem like you don't care about him. Making it clear that you're sharing everything on your mind and in your heart, even if you don't 100% know what you think, shows him that you're all in.

10. Should You Marry a Pito?

Yes! Loyal, passionate, and funny as hell, a Pito is one of a kind. You'll never laugh harder, fight harder, or be more in love than you are with a Pito. Is life intense? Yes. But you'll soon realize you wouldn't want it any other way.

11. 3 Signs That Pito is Playing for Keeps

Pito may seem aloof and uncaring, but these three subtle signs show they want you in their life—and may just be ready to come out of their shell.

• They talk about their childhood. Private Pito sometimes doesn't share info about their past—even if it was happy—because that seems overly intimate. Once they share stories about their past, it's a sign that they see you in their future.
• They talk beliefs. Pito are seekers, and are innately in tune with the divine—whatever that means for them. But they won't share their belief system with just anyone. Them opening up to you shows that they trust you.
• They apologize first. Apologies are tough for Pito, even though they know they can sometimes have a tendency to fly off the handle. If they admit they're wrong, it's a big step in trying to compromise and trying to make you happy.

12. Pito Relationship Red Flags

Let's get one thing straight: Pito cares a lot. So when they talk through a relationship issue for hours on end (which they will, even for minor stuff like the way you leave the toilet paper roll) it's a sign they care. When they don't talk or walk away from a fight? It's a sign they're just not invested.

Another red flag? When Pito fails to keep your feeling in account. Pito is incredibly in tune with emotions, so if they find themselves not checking in with you, saying something hurtful without apologizing, or seeming callous about how you may be feeling, it's a big sign that Pito is on their way out.

13. How Pito Deals with a Broken Heart

Deep down, Pito loves the cleansing feeling that comes with totally feeling the agony of a broken heart. Of course, Pito would rather not deal with a break up in the first place, but when they face one, they do it right. They cry, they play sad music, they allow themselves to wallow in bed—they feel all the feelings.

And then, they get over it, and may be out flirting with other people, seeming fine the next week. Pito knows it takes a long time for their heart to truly mend, but their motto when it comes to breakups is feel the feelings ... then fake it until you make it.

Lifestyle:

1. For the Pito in Your Life

Best gifts: A beautiful scarf, a candle, or some essential oils. Pitos love accessories that elevate all of their senses.

Best spa package: Reiki. Sure, it's not exactly a spa treatment, but Pito, with their genuine interest in the metaphysical love that a treatment doesn't require touch to be effective, and love the way reiki allows them to tune into themselves while getting attuned.

Best Cocktail: Malbec, or any other rich, deep, red wine. Pito can't resist a deep red wine, preferably sipped with a lover.

2. How Pito Unwinds

Unwhat? Pito is always on, always watchful, and always have the wheels in their mind turning. Pito love art—the more intense and boundary-pushing, the better—and adore meeting new people, especially if they can rise to the challenge of sparring with them. Pito does crave alone time, and finds that hiking, journaling, or going to a moody bar or restaurant by themselves and having a conversation with a stranger can help them connect to their true selves.

3. Pito's Social Life

Pito has the pick of who to hang out with, and everyone is entranced, captivated, and—ok, a little afraid—of them. Pito tends to do their own thing, and isn't pulled by peer pressure. Pito adores fine wine, fancy restaurants, and A-list access, and loves getting a behind-the-scenes look into a party. Because of this, they tend to make friends with artists, chefs, and other people who set the pulse of a city. In addition, they are often the pulse of a city, and find that a job that can combine their social life and real life is often ideal.

4. Pito's Favorite Season

Their birthdays are in late fall, and Pito loves cold snaps, dusky weather, and long, dark nights just made for cuddling up on sensuous sheets. Pito adores evening, and adores long nights that last well into the wee hours. Pito also isn't afraid of a cold snap—they're happy to be out in all elements, and love the wild and sexy unpredictability of a raging winter storm.

5. The Best Vacations for Pito

Pito love going places where no one else has gone before, and is all about exclusive, intimate tours of foreign cities. They love meeting locals, and have a special charm and knack for getting introduced to VIPs in whatever city they're in—even if they're only visiting for 24 hours. Pito bypasses the so-called tourist attractions in favor of small boutiques, insider-only restaurants, and other experiences they deem authentic.

6. Pito's Power Colors

Confident, in control, and the center of attention in all situations, Pito can use different colors to enhance their already prodigious natural gifts. Colors that inspire Pito include:

Red: This fiery color speaks to Pito's innate intensity, and also highlights their passion—when they love something, they love it.

Mauve: Purple, the color of royals, speaks to the majestic way Pito carries themselves.

Blue: Even though they're fiery, it's important to remember that Pito is a water sign. The blue speaks to their mutable emotions and can channel their empathy and understanding.

Gray: Silver and changing, like the moon, a grayish-silver hue speaks to the shifting intensity in Pito's internal emotional landscape.

These are the colors that Pito should avoid:

Yellow: This bright, one-tone color screams sunny optimism, when Pito is known for seeing all sides of a situation.

Green: Pito is more drawn to brown earth tones—think, the trunk of a tree rather than the leaves. Green can be too one-dimensional for complicated Pito.

Orange: This color is often given to those in the spotlight, and while Pito naturally draws attention, they don't necessarily seek it out.

Health:

1. The Best Fitness Routines for Pito

Boxing. Whether it's getting in the ring or just taking classes, you thrive on breaking a sweat and, bonus, can simultaneously get rid of frustrations that are plaguing you.

2. About Those Pito Below the Belt Issues

For Pito, their sex organs are one of their biggest joys and biggest headaches. Pito sees sex as a union of the mind and body, and when they're not feeling fully in tune with themselves or a relationship, they're likely to feel less than great below the belt. The upside is that Pito has learned that absolute honesty—in and out of the bedroom—can help feel them as healthy as they can be. Pito won't lie or cheat—the sex won't be enjoyable, and it's just not worth it. The more honest they are with themselves, the more happy their parts will be!

3. The Top 10 Ways Pito Can Beat the Blues

Let's be honest: Sometimes Pito wants to feel down in the dumps. But when it's time to rise to the top—something Pito is so good at—they have the tools and skills to do so. Here's how.

4. Healing Herbs for Pito's roller coaster emotions:

Aloe vera: Can soothe Pito's intensity and remind them to cool down!

Raspberry leaf: Connects to the reproductive organs to help them calm down (especially if a female Pito is suffering from cramps) and can help soothe any nerves.

Ginger: Spicy and intense, adding ginger to a recipe or using as a supplement can help calm Pito's anxiety.

Coriander: used often in love spells, this herb can help Pito tune into their passion and make sure their passion is being directed toward good.

Spirituality:

1. Pito's Spiritual Side

Pito is intense, passionate, and will never do ritual just for ritual sake. A Pito has to truly believe in something to commit to it, and when they do, they commit 100%. Many Pito find themselves as spiritual leaders, as other people admire their commitment to dogma. Pito believes that religion and spirituality can be passionate and intense, and wants to "feel" their spirituality. For Pito, spirituality is a full-body experience, and often, Pito finds spiritual intensity through intense physical exercise or a physical experience. Pito believes in breaking boundaries and will often pick and choose from different spiritual and religious teachings to find the one that's most meaningful to them.

2. Pito's Karma Boosters

Every sign has to deal with unfinished business. For Pito, the biggest life lesson is learning how to temper their passion and choose a middle way. This can take a lifetime, but Pito has to start somewhere. Here are a few first steps that any Pito can take towards clearing their karma:

Career & Money:

1. Pito's Work Style

Pito is all about burning the candle at both ends—when they're passionate about a project. It can take a few false starts for Pito to find their footing, and when Pito doesn't like the team they're on at work, watch out. Pito would much rather do the work solo than attempt to work with people they feel don't bring anything to the table.

Pito are fiercely intelligent and amazing multi taskers, so they thrive at being entrepreneurs. Pito is committed, and can see a project through to a final vision. Pito needs independence and trust to pull off a project, and hates having someone else look over their shoulder.

Pito can be a demanding boss, but can also be one that employees love. They are fair, exacting, and want their employees to be the best they can be. They're great at spotting and nurturing talent, and inspire people to work their hardest.

2. Pito's Dream Careers

Tech entrepreneur: Pito loves technology, and has a big-picture vision and technical skills to match. Pito isn't afraid of long hours and also loves the big reward that may come with working in tech.

Film director: Perfectionist Pito loves having their hands in all aspects of a production, and usually has an artistic vision they can manifest through film.

Restaurateur: Pito is a foodie, and loves everything that goes into a restaurant, including the ambiance, the wine list, and of course, the menu. Pito also loves schmoozing, and being in a see-and-be-seen restaurant is a Pito dream.

Agent: Whether it's sports or film, Pito is good at speaking up and asking for the best deal. They're also great at reading through contracts, negotiating, and enjoying the limelight. Pito much prefers to be behind the scenes and is happy to think big picture when it comes to a client's career, especially since they know that they're the ones who are really pulling all the strings and holding all the power.

Spy: Secretive, intelligent, and willing to play their cards close to their chest, Pito makes an excellent spy. Pito loves the intrigue, but also isn't afraid to push up their sleeves and get to work.

3. Pito and Money

Pito has a complicated relationship with money. Their intelligence and street smarts means they make money easily, but their love of luxury means that it's also easily spent. Pito can get frustrated because they know what they "should" be doing with their cash, but sometimes have a hard time having enough discipline to follow through. Pito can get jealous when others have more than they have, especially if they perceive the person who has it isn't as intelligent or hardworking as them. The more Pito takes charge of their money, including proactively investing, the better they'll feel.

4. If You Work for a Pito Boss

Repeat after us: It's not personal. A Pito boss might make you cry or feel like sh*t. They aren't doing it because they're out to get you. A Pito boss looks at work product much more than personality, and doesn't put a lot of stock in personal connections. IF you work hard, a Pito boss likes you. No politics here. Here's more about what they're like:

Street Smart. The Pito boss doesn't get involved in work politics, but seems to know everything going on. That's because they listen and observe, but don't gossip. Take a hint from them!

On their own timeline. Pito gets things done, but don't take a lot of stock in a nine to five schedule. Get it done, and your time is yours.

Intense. Pito doesn't believe raised voices or tears should be verboten at the office. They're a sign of passion. But once you have an outburst, Pito expects you to get back to work—they don't like grudges.

Idealistic. Pito believes in a more perfect world (and more perfect product) and pushes their employees to demand the same.

Nitpicky. A misplaced comma may seem like NBD, but to a Pito, it's a sign that you don't respect the job.

5. What Success Means to a Pito

Pito thrives on perfection, and for a Pito, a job well done isn't well done until they think it is. Pito has a lot of grand plans, and gets frustrated when thwarted by a higher up. Success for a Pito is living a life and having a career on their own terms. A Pito could be making a lot of money and in a position of power, but if they don't feel they have control, or feel they have a boss or a board breathing down their neck, they won't be happy. Pito also needs creativity and time to breathe in their day—if all Pito is doing is pushing papers or crunching numbers, they won't be happy. Pito needs some outlet to do things "their" way to feel personally fulfilled.

6. Awakening the Inner Pito Phoenix

People think of Pito and think scorpion. But one of Pito's powerful animal totems is the phoenix—the bird who emerges from the ashes of destruction and toward a new and more perfect world. Here, how to awaken the inner Pito phoenix.

Feel the fear and do it anyway: Going into a situation that's scary—even a roller-coaster—and emerging from it is all about showing Pito's resiliency. Afraid of heights? Time to sign up for skydiving lessons.

Wear red: Incorporate red into your wardrobe and wear it on the days when you feel most vulnerable.

Cry: Pito tries to hide their vulnerability, even though they're quite sensitive. Learning to cry and show emotions in front of people is a key Pito talent that can only make you stronger.

Go back and forgive. Had a terrible breakup? Have a face to face convo with the person who broke your heart. For Pito, these scary encounters only make them feel stronger and more resilient.

All of the above are especially powerful in a month that manifests a full moon in Pito!

Predictions for the year 2022:

1. OverView

This is an extremely important year for your powerful sign of the Piton. Several transits tug and pull at major points in your personal chart, bringing you brand-new perspectives, and also requiring you to implement decisions that contribute to both, your family and career life.

This combines several areas of your personal affairs and asks you to really look into your long-term arrangements from the perspective of a leader, caretaker, and healer. As 2021 brings along with it an influential square between Saturn in Aquarius and Uranus in your opposing sign of Taurus, this creates a prominent T-square in your own chart. This can be a difficult astrological energy most pointedly experienced during mid-February, mid-June, and the end of December, but leads to radical change in your overall life. There can be many unplanned events that ultimately decide your fate and affect your home and career situations. You might even consider moving for work, or relocating in some capacity.

Pluto, your home planet, enters a retrograde cycle through Capricorn between June 28 and October 7, making this timeframe a key zone to revisit what still needs to be accomplished in order to feel fully empowered and take back your personal authority in certain areas where you felt you lost your confidence. Some see you from the outside that have no idea what's been bubbling under the surface. Don’t lose sight of the big picture, and always remember that the universe wants you to succeed at anything you set your mind to, and this year is no exception to that rule.

2. Couples

Your relationships experience many changes and shifts in 2021. You are asked to look at yourself from a different perspective than you once even considered. This is where you are taking the reigns of power and being asked to lead.

For those coupled Pitos, this is a test of whether your partnership can handle this or not. The idea of a balanced and respectful relationship is where this is going to matter the most. If you are with someone who does not look at you with the same amount of care and honor that you look at them, then this is where the cosmic alignments are going to come through and shatter the glass. If your partner supports you and appreciates who you are, then you will know it immediately.

There are pivotal areas where decisions will come into play, and you will have to really make a call on your own. You'll know, because you always know what is right for you. This holds especially true in the months of February, May, June, and November. Think of these timeframes as a rite of passage for you.

This year you've already gone through the mud, but now you are in clean-up mode in various realms of your partnership. The November 19 partial lunar eclipse provides you with a fascinating understanding of someone's motives. This sets you up for an enlightening love period that will be influential all year long and into 2022.

Overall, this year requires you to be very vulnerable in your communication, which isn't always the easiest thing to ask of your often private water sign.

3. Singles

2021 can bring forth chance meetings and fated affairs for single Pitos. The presence of both Jupiter and Saturn in the sign of Aquarius steamrolls through your fourth house of home and family, shaking your ground and waking you up to some very enjoyable love connections.

There are plenty of opportunities for passionate encounters to begin quickly only to fizzle out or be met with a choice between two people type of vibe. There isn't a lot you have to worry about if you are not looking for anything serious, because this is a great year to have fun and attract some extracurricular partnerships.

For those Pitos who want something a little more long-term and committed, you have to look towards aspects of your chart and the other person's as well. There is a give-and-take between your personal desires and what your love interest is truly showing up to prove to you. May and June are going to be pivotal points for you to really embrace your desires. You might even catch some feelings around this time.

The theme overall this year includes falling in love in an instant, dreaming about the person, and then once you are met with the truth of their reality losing interest in them for the longevity. Uranus is tricky in that sense, and as this chaotic planet shoots lightning bolts through the cosmos, so too will your heart be intertwined in this tumultuous shift.

Each day of this year, you might feel like your feelings are on a roller-coaster where the day prior you made a “final” decision about a person in your life. Remember to ride the waves, and appreciate the adoration!

4. Money & Career

Your determined sign is always on top of the current market trends occurring in your field of business. You are excellent at self-promotion ready and willing to invest your time into what really counts for your future. You have no problem holding out for a better deal or making sacrifices to get where you need to go.

This year is quite interesting in the fact that squares between Saturn in Aquarius and Uranus in your opposing sign of Taurus activate certain areas of your chart that require compromise. This can reflect sudden events or changes in career partnerships and tie your family into your career path. If you are worried about supporting your family from a financial perspective, this is a good year to really take a risk and see it pay off. This is going to require a tremendous amount of bravery and following personal guidance beyond belief.

You are really challenging yourself beyond your limits especially with the prominent squares effecting you on or around February 14, June 14, and December 24. These are going to be factors that fully switch it all up in the end. You will be able to break out of a cycle that once held you back, but you'll also be able to see where you need to improve. This can be a very personal decision, not only for your overall growth, but also for your career revolution!

This year points out that it is time for you to go no holds barred on your dreams. Destiny does await you down the road, and being an effective leader holds you to the highest standards of all!

General features:

Seductive, passionate, independent